| Life can bring such penetrating lessons when it comes | | | | our precious heart where the grief brings up so many |
| to the process of grieving and closure with a loved | | | | emotions and thoughts of the last time we held them, |
| one. It is hard enough to stay in the present moment | | | | or spoke to them before their journey began to cross |
| and enjoy our loved ones on a daily basis. I have | | | | over to the "Other Side." There is so much to process |
| worked many years as a Spiritual Medium and | | | | when we lose a loved one that we don't know what |
| Clairvoyant, which means I communicate with | | | | to feel, say or do with the events that occurred the |
| deceased loved ones, spirit guides, and angels. My | | | | moment they have left us. We start to internalize |
| purpose in life is to help others heal the pain and grief | | | | inside our hearts, then process all the questions that |
| of someone who has crossed over to the "other side." | | | | start the grieving and closure process of our loved |
| Most of the time, others never had the opportunity to | | | | ones journey themselves. Then we begin to ask the |
| say "Good Bye" to their loved ones whether they lived | | | | questions in our mind "Are they ok?" Did they feel any |
| miles away or the person who crossed over had a | | | | pain before they crossed over in their last minutes of |
| tragic accident. | | | | life?" Did anyone from the "other side" greet them |
| It is very hard sometimes to do the work as a Spiritual | | | | when the crossed over? Do they actually know how I |
| Medium because I am able to feel their emotions and | | | | feel and what is happening to me in my daily life? Are |
| thoughts, as well as seeing them next to their loved | | | | they happy and content on the "other side?" Do they |
| ones. I have had my spiritual gifts since I was five | | | | see me and how will I know when they are around |
| years old. I also feel the touches of deceased loved | | | | me? |
| ones, spirit guides, and angels. My work has helped | | | | I have found that the more time we keep feeling our |
| many people find inner peace and comfort from a | | | | hearts and keep asking the same questions about our |
| private session to a live group of people across the | | | | loved ones. We can connect with them and feel their |
| United States. It took me many years to understand | | | | presence and signs that they are with us every day |
| my gifts and fine tune my gifts through my spiritual | | | | we live. We learn to develop our own spiritual gifts by |
| teachers and mentors. I love and appreciate doing my | | | | tuning into hearing their voice or their thoughts within |
| spiritual work because I have helped so many people | | | | our own mind and our precious little heart. We all have |
| heal their grief and find closure with the person they | | | | our own special talent and gift as humans but some of |
| loved so very deeply in their lives. It is a rewarding | | | | us aren't ready to connect with those gifts until the |
| career to help others finally hear what their loved ones | | | | experience of life makes us learn that we are special |
| healing words are and what they have to say to | | | | in many ways as our loved ones are in our daily lives. |
| comfort the ones who miss them dearly or never had | | | | The loss of someone special in our lives makes us find |
| a chance to say actually say "Good Bye." | | | | out who we really are and what we are about. Time is |
| Now let's try to understand the process of grieving | | | | endless on the "other side." Our loved ones who have |
| and closure with the loss of a loved one. First comes | | | | crossed over to the "other side" are constantly with us |
| the denial, we don't realize what has actually happened | | | | as we still learn our own valuable lessons about |
| to our loved one and all we feel at the moment is the | | | | unconditional love. They have not left us for one minute |
| sensation of feeling numb. From the moment our loved | | | | and will always be with us as long as we feel our |
| ones leave us here, we don't realize what has actually | | | | hearts allow them into our lives once again. We are |
| happened to them until we process the fact that they | | | | never alone as their mind and their hearts still live on |
| are no longer with us. Two weeks go by; we begin to | | | | forever. We can actually feel their presence, guidance, |
| feel the anger of what took place in our hearts | | | | and love in our own hearts, until it time for us to |
| because we long for their mental, emotional, and | | | | journey to the "other side" with them. I have learned |
| physical comfort daily in our lives. We start to realize | | | | about myself through my own spiritual gifts that life is |
| that they are no longer with us as they chose to be in | | | | so precious and the unconditional love stays with us |
| our lives. We then begin our own spiritual journey into | | | | eternally through our own divine hearts forever. |