Transform Your Life with "It is What It is"- Spiritual Growth and Healing

How often have heard or used this phrase: "It is whatthat you shift the events of your life. It means that you
it is"? Could this actually be a major philosophical pointshift your understanding of what's taking place, so that
of view? Saying it seems to stop your wishing it couldyou acknowledge that something profound is
be some other way, your frustration about what'shappening on much higher levels.
happening, or your total dismay about somethingThere are other fascinating phrases that we use in
appearing to be not quite right. It is what it is.ordinary language:
What exactly does that mean? It means "I won't judge- "Whatever." This is a big one! It's used by teens and
it. I accept it as it is or as it appears to be. I won't makemany others who want to take an almost Zen stance.
it into anything it's not. I'll just say 'That's life' and keepNo attachment, no aversion--just "whatever."
on keeping on. Of course, things may not be as theyAccepting everything, rejecting nothing. Now this in an
appear--but sometimes saying, "It is what it is" bringsexalted philosophy .
quiet to an anxious or distressed mind. "I'll give up- "Let it be. There will be an answer, let it be." Not
fighting it and judging it. It is what it is."much explanation is needed here - and thanks to Paul
But What About Transformation?McCartney, we can leap into faith that if we back off
But what if you feel that life is to be transformed?for a while, comfort and answers will certainly come.
That's great too. Transformation is really about- "Whatever will be will be" (Que sera, sera.) This one
transforming your consciousness, seeing things fromis basically fatalistic--again accepting everything that
the point of view of the higher self. Truth be told (ismay be your destiny since the beginning of the illusion
that another philosophy?) from the vantage point ofof time.
our ordinary mind, we don't know if something is good- "I'm brushing that off my shoulder." It's now gone;
or bad. An event or experience may be here to assistthat's how you handle it. Obama says he does this
you to move to a higher level of life--especially if theone.
experience is difficult or seemingly negative. So when- "Just get over it. Let it go." This may be hard for
you say, "It is what it is," you may be acknowledgingpeople who need to cry or grieve or speak their
that this experience may seem to be difficult, butpeace. But it works for some.
looked at from a higher perspective, this might be theThe question now is--Do we have to accept
opportunity to move to another level of consciousness.everything?" Well, you can do whatever you want to
If you lose your home, job, or relationship, this may bedo: change, re-do, fix, alter, shift. After all, "It's your thing.
what your soul needs to take you to a deeper spiritualDo what you want to do." And remember, "It is what it
level. It is what it is. True transformation doesn't meanis.