Spiritual Growth - Scared of What Others Think of You Vs Being Real - The Choice is Yours

Most of us are scared of what others think of us.From what I can see, we are living in a time of great
Especially in regard to our negative beliefs aboutpersonal reckoning, realized by the individual for and by
ourselves which our mind is constantly pre-occupiedhim or herself (not by some outer religion or other
with disguising as someone else's problem. Usuallyauthority). Life is becoming more inwardly challenging,
these negative beliefs have something to do with theand the ego's strategies are no longer working as well.
fear of revealing our deep insecurity.For some, such reckoning will not be able to be
Our deepest fear, I would say, is that of mass ridicule,tolerated, but for others their conscience will take the
or being laughed at.fore in choices they make in relationship to others, be it
But what have to lose in reality? Can we really loseloved ones, colleagues or total strangers and a sense
who we are?of reality will be brought in. We each make our choices
I contend that we have nothing in the first place thatand we each lie on the bed of our own actions.
can be lost.Nothing goes unnoticed in the Universe. The Akashic
And when you have nothing to lose, you are free.records make sure of that. But the Universe /
Or the other way of putting it and in the words of oneConsciousness does not judge, it simply awaits our
of my favourite singer-songwriters, Bob Dylan, 'Whenown becoming of who we are - eventually everything
you got nothing, you got nothing to lose.'must come to rest in truth. It could not really be any
This is more the truth of truth of it - we really haveother way.
nothing, not ego, not fear, not any other label orAlthough our Divine spark remains hidden behind these
emotion that we could put a name to - so how couldconstant efforts to appear a certain way to others,
we lose it? (This is the spiritually awakened stateenergy is such that it cannot be hidden. There is
wherein nothing or stillness is the natural state of being;always creation of energy going on. Even if someone
in this state we just are).is not able to see such dynamics they will certainly be
But most of us have a dread of even the most minorfeeling the lower vibrational energies. No wonder it's
judgment from others, and in this process weeasy to feel emotionally drained. The choice is always
compromise ourselves, our truth and our integrity. Thisours - is it to be fear and ego, or is it to be honesty
is fine if it is acknowledged, but this is usually not theand forgiveness, starting with self-forgiveness?
case. Rather, it's an inflated sense of importance thatLet's be honest. We all know what is really in our
we carry with us in our relationships that is our ownhearts and what we cover up, don't we?
worst enemy. This seems to matter little out in theLife is truly too short in this physical world to continue
world as we have it today. The 'looking good' it seems,to waste energy on maintaining the cover-ups. It's also
is all-important to us and the cost to ourselves andan opportunity to expand and grow rapidly; it truly is a
others ignored. Yet we fail to see that our own worstprecious chance we have here!
enemy can lead us to our greatest gift of freedomSo, the question is, is the ego trip worth it?
and liberation.You choose. No one else can anyway.