| Many Christian singles like to quote the scripture that | | | | chance to develop into a healthy connection if she |
| says "God does not give us a spirit of fear." But | | | | senses that you are intimidated by her. Many Christian |
| somebody must have snuck in the back door and | | | | women are practically begging God to send them a |
| scared the "bejeebies" out of many single Christian | | | | man who is able to stand up and step up. |
| men because a lot of us are intimidated by | | | | It is true that God has not given us a spirit of fear, so |
| independent women. Come on brothers, what in the | | | | Christian men need to put their fears aside and trust |
| world are we afraid of? | | | | God enough to prepare them for the exceptional |
| There are single Christian women who have it going | | | | women that He is sending our way. No, don't run away |
| on. They look good, smell good, make "good" money, | | | | from her. Run to her, that woman is the one for you. |
| live in a nice house, drive a nice car and seem to | | | | As accomplished as that phenomenal Christian woman |
| exude a ton of self-confidence. Isn't that the kind of | | | | is, the more she can help us to become all that God |
| woman we want in our lives? But, instead we make | | | | wants us to be. As a spiritual leader, Christian men are |
| up lame excuses like "She's too independent" or "She | | | | being called to lead the way to stronger connections |
| acts like she does not need a man" or "She is too high | | | | to God. As a person of spiritual influence, Christian |
| maintenance". Lies, lies, lies! | | | | women are being called to remind us of our divinely |
| As Christian men, we were endowed with the divine | | | | ordained purpose. Unfortunately, too many Christian |
| gift of spiritual leadership. With leadership comes a | | | | single men see her spiritual gifts as a curse when in |
| sense of purpose for those things God has for us and | | | | fact they were meant to serve as the source of |
| for those we interact with. Over time, our gift of | | | | powerful blessings. |
| spiritual leadership should nurture a level of | | | | Today is a good day for Christian single men to |
| self-confidence that is attracted to and not repelled by | | | | answer the divine call to be real men. Part of our |
| women who are also self-confident. | | | | response to God's plan for us is to stop being so |
| A woman cannot love a man for the long-term that | | | | scared of our Christian single women. |
| she does not respect and the relationship has no | | | | |