Relationship Breakdown - How to Protect Yourself Financially, Emotionally and Spiritually

When a marriage or common law partnership endsfor your own vehicle, you may not quality because
there are many vital details that need attention whenyou have too much credit that you are responsible for.
you are separating money, debt, personal householdThis example talks only about loans. Credit cards has it
belongings, children, pets and friends. Undoubtably aown set of issues but none the less - as you move
difficult process for any individual to manage all ofthrough the process of separating everything that was
these items when there are so many details to workonce shared, my recommendation is to do the same
through, especially when you are emotional and cannotwith credit cards.
find the energy to think clearly.I wouldn't stop there. Separating assests whether that
There is a support Guide now available to do thebe chequing or savings accounts, term deposits or
thinking for you. The book, 'The Business of Breakinganything else that is joint should be decided and
Up - Your Personal Guide' breaks it down to ease thedistributed early on. I have seen situations while
process while protecting yourself financially andworking in a financial institution where one spouse
emotionally.comes in to make a withdrawl and unfortunately the
There are numerous mistakes people make whichbalance has already been withdrawn. Fair or not... I am
ends up costing money and hardship. People do notnot in a position to judge but the point is that as joint
often see potential risk when making important financialowners, both have access to withdrawl the money.
changes as their situations change. One importantI have only discussed a couple of important items that
example is the decision to separate debt. This is keyneet to be considered when separating finances.
for several reasons. Can you imagine keeping a jointThere are many more areas to cover. The book, 'The
vehicle loan and for some unforseeable reason, theBusiness of Breaking Up - Your Personal Guide' talks
partner who promised to pay doesn't or cannot makemore about these items along with important
payments. People need to understand that regardlessconsiderations for separating everything that was
of any verbal agreements made as to who will keeponce shared.
making payments for credit, both parties areIt is an overwhelming life change that can seem
responsible in the event that there is a late payment orfrightening and impossible to deal with. The book is an
skipped payment. I would suggest separating all debt inorganized and easy to read and understand approach
this case so that each individual protects their ownto managing all the details and changes that need
credit rating or score. Another reason to beattention. It offers checklists, bugeting tools, tips to
independant on credit using the same scenario is thatreduce monthly expences, ideas to increase income,
remaining as a co-borrower could effect future creditthoughts and ideas to keep positive and healthy
capicity. This means that if you stay on this vehicleemotionally and physically. It's a harder road for some
loan and you need to go ahead and get your own loanbut no one needs to do it alone anymore. I can help.