Preparing For 2012 - A Psychic & Intuitive Counselor's View

Phew, the energy out there has been intense lately! Itlike a soul, love is eternal and that he has more of it to
seems that everyone I know is going through a time ofgive.
profound questioning. Much has been written aboutAnother time, a woman who felt stuck in a relationship
Earth Changes and 2012. But what does that meanthat was pulling her down contacted me. In
for you on an emotional and spiritual level now? I offerhypnotherapy, "Emma" was able to connect with her
some points of contemplation as well as real worldown inner core of strength - like an old tree that was
examples of psycho-spiritual preparation in action!very stable and deeply rooted despite any of the
What if more people expressed more Divine Love?elements or changes going on around it. She grieved
What if more people had humility? What if moreand took that strength with her, making changes in her
people could see a glimmer of Light in everyone else?outer world as needed. Not long after that, she
What if more people had greater compassion? Whatcontacted me and told me she felt like she was
if more people had a greater percentage of theirglowing! By connecting with her own inner Light and
identity coming from the knowledge that they're adoing a piece of emotional healing, she was able to
Beacon of Light from Source and a lesser percentageshine more brilliantly in many areas of her outer world.
of their identity tied to the material world? What if"Diane" and I worked together for two years. Through
more people knew that each soul has the full range ofa combination of psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and
human experiences from one lifetime to the nextpast life regression, she was able to exit a long time
before completing it's evolutionary cycles on earth (i.e.co-dependent relationship, grieve hardships and losses
What comes around goes around)? What if morefrom her childhood and early adulthood, understand
people felt closer to Source-God-Spirit? What if morefeelings of isolation and sadness that began thousands
people knew that all things happen for a reason andof years ago in her very first human incarnation when
that the only movement we make is forward - evenshe felt separated from Source - and healed them!
when we feel stuck or when it appears that we'reThough there were many waves of profound
going backwards? What if more people knew that wesadness that arose for Diane during our years of work
all have a Soul and that only our Soul and the love wetogether, she developed a new level of comfort in
choose to channel through it is infinite? What if moredealing with these feelings as they arose. She realized
people held some of these attributes and couldthat the waves of pain simply were not going to
integrate them into their daily lives with greater depth? Idrown her. Each wave only made her stronger.
believe it's possible - inevitable - as we move throughThroughout our work, Diane also established healthier
the energy shifts that precede 2012.patterns of eating and exercise, went on several
Clients occasionally ask me, "Matthew, how do youspiritual retreats, and began to delve into new
hold the beliefs that you do and survive in the world?"meditation practices. She recently updated me,
The truth is that sometimes it's difficult - even painful -indicating that she's continued to expand these
when I feel a discrepancy between my beliefs and thebody-mind-spirit rituals since completing our work
circumstances around me. I have regular fantasies oftogether.
a brighter world - a more connected world that's freerSo what perspectives and tools might you consider
of judgments, bureaucracy, human created separatism,when visiting "purgatory" - doing your own preparation
and cynicism. In other words, I hold a vision of 2012 andfor 2012?
beyond! But I think that most of you - my readers -1. Find the place of compassion in your own heart that
can connect to this vision at least on some level. Yes,allows you to be good to yourself. Doing so will not
the structures of our society are crumbling to allow usonly help you heal. Accessing compassion for yourself
to pave the way for something new. So what does allwill eventually extend to others and you'll share more
of this mean for us on a real world emotional level aslove with the world.
we prepare for 2012?2. Keep in mind the Laws of Karma: Everyone who's
It means that compassion, humility, and connectednessimpacted by your decisions has signed on for that
(to each other and to Source) are at the gateway tojourney. Release your obligations to make it all okay
2012. However, in the path toward enlightenment andfor everyone else. Through hardship, they'll grow - just
grace, we're now dealing with the following emotionalas you will. I'm not suggesting that you shut down
experiences:emotionally or tell the people you love to keep a stiff
Grief, loss, shame, guilt, regret, isolation, self-judgments,upper lip. While remaining sensitive to the struggles for
could haves, should haves, a perception ofeveryone involved, do the best you can with what you
powerlessness, fear, and disillusionment. Soundhave in the present - expecting nothing more and
familiar?nothing less of yourself. Through that journey, you'll
As a therapist and spiritual teacher, I humblydevelop more realistic (and compassionate)
acknowledge that each of these feelings have comeexpectations of yourself and others.
across my own state of consciousness in recent3. Try not to "future trip" and micro-analyze. Energy is
months. Many of them took me by surprise. Darn, Ishifting and you're changing - whether it feels that way
thought I healed that years ago! But I also know thator not. Details that you micro-analyze and plan for may
each time we grow, we move forward for a while -have little to no relevance in a couple of years.
until we encounter a more complicated situation. ThenSometimes when we let go of intellectual analysis and
we feel stuck and old feelings and reactions arise.planning, we open ourselves up to new opportunities
We're prompted to step up to the challenge ofthat we never imagined possible. The universe wants
applying what we know to something new and weto support you in manifesting new experiences that
may flounder for a while until we figure out how. Anare beyond your imagination. That's part of the shift!
old teacher of mine refers to that phase of healing as4. If you've been feeling stuck for years, perhaps it's
"purgatory." But sometimes real healing has little to dotime to get help from a qualified professional. If you've
with figuring out anything. The issues we're dealing withbeen feeling stuck for a shorter period of time, know
individually and collectively aren't intellectual. They'rethat people don't remain stuck forever unless they
emotional and energetic. We have to feel them fully inchoose to. If you're determined to grow from this
order to move through them. The only way out isexperience, you will!
through! But how do we achieve that goal? Some5. Ask your Higher Guidance for support. Ask to
case examples follow:receive information that you need intuitively or to be
Not long ago, I was contacted by a gentleman wholed to teachers and resources that can support you.
had lost his father in the months prior. I'll call himRelease questions about how and when. Instead, trust
"Joseph." A busy professional, he hadn't had time tothat you'll tap into the right resources shortly after
grieve. With great insight, Joseph knew that the onlyasking.
way to move on was to allow time for his tears. In the6. Trust that now is the time to do your own emotional
relaxed state of hypnosis in our session, he was ablework. Spiritual and emotional growth, expansion, and
to release a great deal of grief. Joseph then becamepositive manifestation all go together. You cannot
particularly saddened by the notion of living in a worldachieve one without the other. As you align your own
without the divine love that a father has for his son. Heenergy, you open yourself up to new opportunities.
felt that the world needs more of this love. We didThat's part of the Law of Attraction.
some transformational work and by the end of his7. Remember: Imagination comes from Source. If you
session, Joseph began to contemplate the possibility ofcan imagine something wonderful, it must be possible!
keeping his father's love alive by looking for ways toSending you Love & Light in your transformational
share it with the world - in his own way. He knew thatjourney.