No Tears For the Dead - Spiritually Overcoming Grief

Death is a subject that leaves most of us in feartraveled to, is better than where we are. As humans
when ever we think of the loss of loved ones. Deathwe should miss them and feel the pain of this loss.
is something that we must learn to understand wouldHowever we are also spiritually built which means we
come to each and everyone of us. However knowingshould use the words of the Lord to help us through
this logic and coping with it during the time are twothis grief. In the bible we are taught that: 'There is one
different things. In order to understand how we canglory for the sun, and another glory of the moon, and
overcome the loss of a loved one spiritually we mustanother glory of the stars: for one star differeth from
first examine the basic principles of what happens inanother star in glory. So also is the resurrection of the
death.dead. It is sown in weakness and is raised in power: It
In simple terms death is eternal loss, that which weis sown a natural body and raised a spiritual body.
had, we have no more. The next defining aspect ofThere is a natural body and a spiritual body.' This
this loss is how we feel about it. If it has no impact inteaches us that death is the end of one existence for
our lives then we move on easily, however if it doesanother which is higher and eternal. If we begin by
have an impact in our lives then we face grief. Toaccepting Christ in our lives then we take the first
really begin grieving we must understand why we loststeps to understanding that our physical loss is our
that loved one. Some reasons are obvious, especiallyspiritual gain.
age and illness. At least here we know before handThe bible also teaches us: 'But I would not have you to
why death came about. We grieve differentlybe ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are
because of prior knowledge. Sudden death that hasasleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have
no meaning is sometimes more difficult to cope with.no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose
Here we have no prior knowledge and seekagain, even so them which sleep in Jesus will God
understanding. In either case grief is the end resultbring with him.' This tells us to have hope, for as the
because we have lost a loved one.Lord was resurrected so shall our loved ones be in
Spiritually overcoming grief does not mean that weChrist.
should not shed tears for our loved ones. In the bibleSpiritually overcoming grief begins and ends with the
when our Lord and savior learned of the death ofword of God. Scripture is our answer to grief. Faith
Lazarus he cried alongside the people beforeand hope that these words are true comes with
resurrecting him. So as humans we should expect tobelieve in God through our Lord and savior Jesus
cry for this loss. Spiritually overcoming grief is beingChrist.
able understand that where ever our loved ones have