Finding Spirituality Within

People in recovery who are successfully working thegrounded in Higher Power is the primary goal for the
Twelve Steps know that AA is a spiritual program. Atspiritual journey.
first some people in search of sobriety in recovery areSpiritual-becoming leads us into deeper mindfulness of
turned off when they are told spirituality is the verythe quality of our life on the lives of others. Progressive
foundation of AA and the Twelve Steps. Spirituality isdiscovery of who we really are makes it possible for
often equated with religion, but spirituality is more thanus to penetrate the surface of things and break
that and goes deeper; it is the foundation for a religiousthrough to the interconnectedness of all living things
tradition. Religion, according to Webster, is "thewith God.
acknowledgment of a Divine Being and a systematicThe disease of addiction cannot be healed but like
manifestation in worship, ritual and conduct."cancer can be held in remission. Treatment, working
Many people do not have a systematic worship orthe Twelve Steps and AA empower an addict or
ritual and yet are still spiritual. When a person is notalcoholic to work on maximizing their spiritual life while
affiliated to a specific religion, he or she can mistakenlykeeping the disease in check. Too often people with
conclude that he or she is not spiritual. Nurturing athe disease as well as others search outside
spiritual life can lead a person to express his or herthemselves for something greater and deeper to
connection with God in and through a religious tradition.satisfy their hunger. Yet what they search for is inside,
Yet, spirituality transcends a religion. Every humanintangible and transcendent. Our life-journey is not
being is spiritual by virtue of the fact that he or she hasultimately outside, but a journey inward to a discovery
breath or life.of God within us. In fact, what we search for what we
As we progressively struggle through life's positive andalready have, namely the God-given gift of life; our
negative moments we can either cultivate the art ofmission is to wake up, foster, and celebrate this
living or we can merely survive.awesome gift. Life's mission is not about getting
Spirituality is frequently considered by many people asattention or things from others but being attentive to
some thing to be acquired. For many years I haveand in touch with self, others and Higher Power.
worked at Hanley Center, West Palm Beach, Florida,For years I have urged people yearning for spiritual
as a spiritual counselor, and often people ask me,connection to simply embrace their life and discover
"What must do I do to get spirituality or can you helpthe extraordinary in the ordinary. To appreciate life as
me become more spiritual?" In cases where men andsacred is to see the "Wow" and awe of being alive.
women have been through several Twelve StepSeveral years ago I challenged a talented musician, a
treatment programs, when asked what is missing inpatient, to compose a song that recounted his journey
their life the answer is consistently the same, spirituality.from abuse to spiritual awakening. His epiphany to
The good news is spirituality is not something toMystery-Presence and his life-change are reflected in
acquire like a possession but rather someone wethese lyrics of Waking Up.
already are. Who we are and how we live in"I know I've been asleep for years, a nightmare that
relationship to others is what ultimately expresses ourwould never end.
spirituality, our lifestyle, and is the foundation for ourToo afraid to face my fears, it seems that I was my
existence.only friend.
Given that spirituality is about a way of life, theI had to admit I was powerless, knew I didn't want to
difference for each person becomes the quality of hisdie.
or her relationships with others. To be mindfully spiritualMy heart cried out for happiness, a miracle was sent in
suggests that a person is on a journey of becomingLove's reply.
his or her truest self through recurring phases ofI'm waking up - living in a new light, waking up no more
awareness, discovery and breakthrough.being uptight".
Waking up to life with a sense of purpose as