| Over the course of my life, I have met many people | | | | and something I couldn't change even if I wanted to. |
| who really want to know if psychics are for real. They | | | | Yet in sharing my ability with people for a fee, it also |
| want an honest answer, usually because they have an | | | | becomes a part of my job. And I've had to learn that |
| honest problem. Therefore, I have decided to share | | | | no one I've ever met does their job with 100% |
| with you what I know to be the absolute truth about | | | | accuracy...nor should we humans be expected to; |
| this subject. | | | | because on top of everything else, we psychics are |
| Let me begin by telling you that since the age of 3 I | | | | still people. |
| have experienced vivid dreams that have often came | | | | We have good days, bad days, sick days and irritable |
| true, seen ghosts walking through my house on a | | | | days. Does the quality of our lives and our emotions |
| nightly basis, and heard "their" whispers coming out of | | | | affect our readings; probably. Just like your mood, your |
| every darkened corner, unoccupied room and most | | | | life and your troubles affect your dealings with others |
| closets that I dared to pass by, on a nearly constant | | | | and your ability, or even your desire, to do your job to |
| basis. And that, without a shadow of a doubt, is the | | | | the best of your ability. The same is true for all people, |
| absolute truth. | | | | psychics included. |
| As I grew older I soon began to realize that I also | | | | Although I must add that on some of my worst days I |
| knew things about people's lives that I shouldn't or | | | | have done my best readings...so even that in the |
| couldn't have known. Things that at first I assumed | | | | psychic world isn't guaranteed. |
| everyone knew, because I naively believed it was | | | | I've even had people ask me when I've mentioned this |
| merely rational deduction and good old fashioned | | | | to them if they could book their appointments on one |
| "common sense" that helped me recognize when | | | | of my "good days"...but you see...I never know until I |
| someone was ill, suicidal, depressed, or facing some | | | | begin our reading together how smoothly things will go |
| major obstacle in their life...even if they hadn't | | | | and how strongly I will connect with your relatives. In |
| mentioned it or looked particularly distressed at the | | | | fact, I won't know until you tell me how much of what |
| time. | | | | I'm saying makes sense to you whether it's a "good |
| It took me years to finally understand that what I knew | | | | reading" or a "challenging one". |
| about people, sometimes upon first meeting them, | | | | So the bottom line is this...being a person with an |
| other people didn't know. It also took years of people | | | | intangible skill like Psychic Discernment is so undefinable |
| convincing me that I had a gift, an ability that needed to | | | | and sometimes so often completely out of even the |
| be explored. Something that people wanted me to | | | | psychics control, that all we can do is all we can do. |
| share with them; in fact, sought me out to share with | | | | And while I love my job and can't imagine ever doing |
| them.; something that I was a little more than hesitant | | | | anything outside of the Paranormal and Psychic field, |
| to do, because I didn't understand it, nor did I believe it | | | | there are some days I think it'd be easier to just sell |
| was "special" in any way. | | | | sofas. At least then I can see, feel and describe the |
| Yet now, after years of living and working with these | | | | sofa to you in "definitive" terms. And you can sit down |
| unusual abilities, taking classes, reading books, sharing | | | | and experience the sofa yourself...long before you buy |
| my insights with others, and practicing this skill on all of | | | | it. And if you get home and hate the sofa you can |
| my family and friends, I have finally grown comfortable | | | | either bring it back or learn to live with it, because after |
| with the fact that my abilities are very different and | | | | all, you chose it with all of your senses involved. |
| have a purpose and a value. | | | | It's sometimes hard to charge people a fee for |
| And in all truth, it's been a very bumpy ride every since. | | | | something you're not sure of. I've had to learn that |
| I've had readings with individuals where I connected so | | | | what I'm charging you for is my time, not my accuracy. |
| deeply with their lives and their departed relatives that | | | | But can your doctor, dentist or psychiatrist ever |
| even I was amazed and stunned at how precise the | | | | guarantee you that they'll cure you? Can your lawyer |
| information was, and how accurate the future | | | | ever guarantee you that you'll win a case? No. They |
| predictions turned out to be. | | | | see likelihoods and probabilities of outcomes; just like I |
| Yet on the other hand, I've also had readings with | | | | do. |
| people where I struggled for every bit of information I | | | | So are Psychic Abilities Real? Yes. It has been proven |
| got. Readings where I couldn't even seem to get a | | | | to me time and time again. Because believe it or not |
| half-hearted connection established between me and | | | | I'm actually a skeptic at heart about most things |
| their deceased relatives. And those readings are both | | | | intangible. So this was something that time, experience |
| draining and frustrating for me. In fact, they are usually | | | | and results were needed for me to understand that it |
| only frustrating for me as the other person never really | | | | really did exist. |
| knows how hard I worked and how much better the | | | | Know too that being a psychic can become a really |
| reading could have been had I been able to hear as | | | | large burden for psychics to carry, because you can |
| clearly or feel as deeply as I had on some of my prior | | | | never just have an opinion or express a likely outcome |
| readings. Yet my clients always feel they receive | | | | like everyone else does...people "expect" you to know. |
| something of value, even when I know it could have | | | | And we have to realize that they just might base their |
| been so much better. | | | | life decisions on what we say, and that really can |
| And sometimes I get so tired of the disappointment I | | | | become overwhelming at times. |
| feel when things aren't connecting securely that I take | | | | But after 50 years of being Psychic I've finally learned |
| time off and wonder if "my gift" has left me, or merely | | | | that people will do what people will do. And that just |
| the work of it has caused the pleasure in doing it | | | | because I've sometimes felt overwhelmed in the past |
| disappear. And to be brutally honest, if I can't do it well, I | | | | by the gravity of my words that doesn't mean I get to |
| don't want to do it at all...something my helpers in spirit | | | | quit doing it. |
| have heard me say probably once too often over the | | | | Because I'm not like everyone else. I have an ability |
| last 30 years. | | | | that really can help people. And it's those times when I |
| Yet I always go back. It seems like it's something that | | | | see a light come on in someone's grieving eyes, or I |
| I'm not allowed to quit on; like breathing. | | | | feel their child enter back into their life via me to help |
| So how accurate are Psychics? I've never tried to | | | | heal their broken heart, or I forewarn of a coming job |
| measure the accuracy of my own predictions simply | | | | loss or car accident, and that person can either adjust |
| because of the vast number of people I read for; | | | | or understand it when it happens, that I know, I have a |
| along with the fact that they are scattered all over the | | | | powerful gift that is as real as anything else in this |
| world. However, from the feedback I do get from | | | | world. |
| on-going clients, I believe my accuracy is high enough | | | | And it's also those times when I can tell a cheating |
| to satisfy them and seems to bring them back to me | | | | husband what he's about to lose and get him to |
| when their lives need more attention than any normal | | | | change his ways, or I can help someone really find |
| help can offer. | | | | their passion and their purpose in life, or I work with a |
| But accuracy can't be measured by correct | | | | sick person and help them feel less pain, and |
| predictions alone; at least not in my belief. Because I | | | | sometimes am even blessed to make their passing |
| know that when I read for someone and I tell them | | | | easier, that I know...right or wrong...hard or easy...I have |
| what I see coming into their lives they always have the | | | | a job to do and I'm one of the few people I know who |
| ability to change some, if not all, of what I see...or at | | | | really has the built-in skills to do it in exactly the way |
| least I hope they do. After all, what fun would life be if | | | | that I can. |
| it were so static; if our free-will didn't exist and our | | | | So being a practicing Psychic has become a passion, |
| entire lives were already fated to be lived in only one | | | | a duty, and an honor for me. Even when other people |
| certain way? | | | | doubt its validity, I know better, because I've lived with it |
| I believe that every individual has the power and ability | | | | for over 50 years now. And I've also found that even |
| to change or alter outcomes of nearly every event | | | | when I'm wrong, there was a very good reason for it. |
| simply through their choosing to do so. And I always | | | | Even I have had to learn how to trust the process and |
| encourage my clients to take my information and do | | | | help when I can, and get out of the way when I can't. |
| just that. To make their lives better through the insights | | | | And I've been made to accept that sometimes I'm right |
| I have just shared with them. | | | | and sometimes I'm not. I've learned not to expect so |
| I use my abilities to inform my clients of the most likely | | | | much out of myself because then I either have less to |
| outcome of a particular event if they continue on with | | | | give or I quit giving at all. I have so little control over |
| their lives in the same manner that they are currently | | | | what my spirit helpers and your spirit helpers decide to |
| living them. So by empowering them through | | | | share with me for you, and about you, and I fully |
| knowledge and likely outcomes that I am privy to, I feel | | | | understand that I can't afford to expect to be right all |
| that I have done my job. In other words, I don't want to | | | | the time. There's just too much involved in this process |
| restrict them in the way they live their lives by insisting | | | | to ever expect that. |
| that what I say is the only possible outcome; instead, I | | | | But do I know people who claim to be really good |
| want to expand upon their possibilities, and I always | | | | Psychics and aren't? Yes. Or perhaps I've just never |
| share with them the ways in which they can change | | | | caught them on one of their good days. Yet I also |
| whatever it is they don't like about their future. | | | | know several people who would never claim to be |
| Too often I believe that psychics feel compelled to | | | | Psychic that most certainly are. |
| state with absolute certainty what they see for the | | | | And I believe that if there was a person on the face |
| future with no room for alterations. I also believe they | | | | of this earth who had all the answers all of the time, |
| do so because our field is so intangible that if they | | | | they would never find a moments peace. Plus, who |
| didn't appear to be resolute in their predictions, no one | | | | really wants that? I mean who really wants to know |
| would listen to anything they say at all. But | | | | everything? Seems like that would remove all the |
| unfortunately, free will, choices, and changes will alter | | | | miracles, magic and surprises in life...and I love those |
| outcomes of many events regardless of their | | | | just as much as the next person. |
| resolution and their "rightness" at the time. | | | | So I'm sorry when I "miss" something that was |
| Are some things fated to happen that won't or can't | | | | important to someone during an appointment, but I can |
| be changed? Yes. But even we Psychics don't know | | | | only do what my gift allows me to do. Know that even |
| which things they are. If we did you wouldn't try to | | | | I don't completely know how all this Psychic stuff |
| make your own choices, and I believe that is often | | | | works...let alone how to control it entirely. Yes, I've |
| why we are sometimes right about nearly everything, | | | | learned a great deal about it over the years, but still, it |
| and other times, not so much so. | | | | involves things that are so much larger than us that my |
| So in truth, accuracy lies in the eyes of the beholder | | | | mind probably couldn't even hold the truth of it all if I did |
| most often. Even really great psychics should be used | | | | know. |
| only as a guidepost; not the authority on your life. And I | | | | And with that said, I hope you can see how psychics |
| believe all psychics would find their accuracy soaring | | | | are just people with a different sort of skill. And if we |
| and their burden of being right lifted if only they could | | | | knew everything, we'd all be lottery winners by now |
| learn to relax and use the gift in the way it is given...not | | | | and retired on some beach somewhere far away. It |
| in the way they want it to be. | | | | just doesn't work that way. By design I believe. |
| For me, being a psychic is a large part of who I am | | | | |