A Passage of Time - Death As Our Defining Moment

Thanatophobia is the fear of death, or the fear ofthan ever before.
dying. To be human is to be mortal, and if there is oneTo admit that a three pound lump of grey jelly is
moment, one action which is shared by every humancapable of thought so advanced that it can
who ever breathed, it is the moment of death. To becontemplate its own place in the universe, imagine
afraid of death is normal; we are hard wired to survive,beyond the physical world, probe deep within the fabric
to cling to life, to live to our full potential. Life is aof the cosmos and still be able to remember how to
journey, and it is in our genetic makeup to make everyboil an egg is to accept that this world contains
effort to make that journey as long as possible.something more incredible than could reasonably be
It is inevitable that our journey will end, as all journeysexpected. To consider that the imaginings of our brain
must do. What purpose is there in any journey weextend beyond the physical realm we see is hardly far
make if we have no intention of ever arriving?reaching.
The fear of dying is, deep down, a reason for living.We already accept that there is much we cannot see,
But it is not the only reason, and an unhealthyyet know exists. We cannot see radio waves, or light,
preoccupation with dying will simply darken the wholewe cannot see the wind or heat, yet we know that
journey. Imagine a train journey which is spentthey exist. An awareness beyond death is merely the
perpetually in fear of crashing headlong into someshadow in the darkness we can't see yet, until the light
unseen obstacle. The entire journey would be spentis switched on and it is revealed.
scrutinizing the pinpoint of distance ahead, focussingWhether you believe that there is a god, an eternal life
only on the rails ahead and of the unseen obstacle. Farforce, or a world which exists on a parallel plane
better, surely, would be to enjoy the journey - look todoesn't matter - whether god is your religion, or
each side, and admire the view, watch the changingscience, or a self belief quite independent of others
scenery unfold before you like the pages of an epicmakes little difference - the thought of a further
story, share the journey with those fellow passengersexperience beyond death is comforting.
around you, and live whilst you are alive.Perhaps scientist would do well to fall back upon the
We have each been granted a glorious andwords of one of their own. Albert Einstein told us, even
unimaginably precious gift - a life. Each of us aliveproved, that "Energy can be neither created nor
today has beaten the odds in spectacular fashion. Itdestroyed, but only altered in form." We, as human
has taken billions of years to create you, and even atbeings, are a collection of various types of energy.
the moment of your conception you beat the odds ofThis energy, according to Einstein, has always been
several million to one. We are each the culmination ofaround and will forever be around. It can't be
eons of survival and success; we are each adestroyed, it can only change or alter in form; take on
spectacular winner in the survival stakes.a different shape and appearance than what it once
If you were to be given a gift of money, would youwas. This is the reason spirit mediums are capable of
hide it away, looking at it occasionally, but keeping itconnecting with those who have crossed over. It is
locked away from sight and use for fear of losing it?because the essence of an individual's soul, that
Or would you enjoy the opportunity to use it to bringenergy, has altered from being embodied in one form
happiness, enjoyment, comfort or some experienceand has changed into another form.
which will become happy memories? To use ourYet again, to dwell purely on this possible extension of
precious gift of life mulling gloomily on the fact that it islife is to dwell on the end of this journey. Yes, we may
ultimately limited in length is to waste the time we dobe on a train hurtling down the tracks towards a
have; a time when we could be looking out of thedestination which may, or may not, be a station at
window, becoming a part of the unfolding story, andwhich we disembark only to change trains and
celebrating the fact that we have beaten thecontinue our journey - but this is a second journey,
infinitesimally small odds and made it here, all of us,through different lands, with different stories and
together.landscapes and experiences. We shall never again
No story is successful without an ending, no poemhave the opportunity to look out of the windows we
complete without the poet's concluding words, nosee now, to be part of the story unfolding right now, at
sentence without its defining full stop. Death is our fullthis very minute.
stop, our defining moment - our grand conclusion, theLife without death is meaningless, as is light without
final chapter to our current existences and thisdarkness, heat without cold, happiness without pain. To
fabulous and unique passage of time that we areconsider one without the other takes away all meaning
sharing with others. Death is the moment when this lifeand substance from both.
becomes a sentence in the epic tale of life, a momentRemember this - you are alive, now. More than this,
when we are defined in history, when we become theyou are alive and you are aware of that fact. There
beautiful words in the poet's last verse. It is thewas a time before you, and there will be a time after
moment when our whole journey becomesyou, but there will never again be an exact same
worthwhile, when we arrive.world which you are currently living in and where you
It is the ultimate mystery to know whether deathare a living sentence, an indisputable part of the epic
marks the end of life, or merely the transition from onetale that has been told for all eternity.
form to another. For many people religious beliefsLive, don't just survive; run, but not away from death -
serve as comfort, with the hope and faith of anrun through life only that you explore as much of it as
eternal life beyond the physical existence we see.possible. One does not throw away the seeds
There is so much mystery and magic surrounding thisbecause the plant will only die; we plant it, nurture, it,
world; to watch billions of tonnes of exploding gas risespend every day helping it to grow not just to survive,
up in the East and pour teeming life upon a globebut to bloom, to blossom, to be beautiful and alive.
suspended in an ultimate darkness is to see a worldBe alive, be beautiful. Tomorrow will come, but today is
where almost anything seems possible. Science admitsalready here. Let's discover what part we play in
it has no answers, only questions. The more ourtoday's chapter, and let the storyteller worry about
scientists probe and explore, the more mystery istomorrow's plot.
revealed. More scientists are turning to religion today