Crossing the Musical Generation Gap

Twice now, in the past year, I have packed my MartinIn each of the two cases a few minutes of
acoustic guitar, headed over to two different friendscommonality would pop out. In one case I asked the
houses where, in each house, there was a 14 year oldyoung lady with her Strat, to play a few simple chores,
guitar player. In one case it was a 14 year old girl, theAm, F, D and G. I showed her the sequence, I started it
other a 14 year old boy. The girl was still wearingout on my guitar, she picked up the rhythm, and when
braces, the boy was about 6 feet, a thick head of longshe seemed to fall into the groove I took off playing
hair, curly at the ends and very sultry looking. Onethe lead to Apache, one of my favorite guitar
house housed, in addition to the teenager, a Fenderinstrumentals from the early 1960s. Funnily, after about
Stratocaster, in the other house, in addition to the90 seconds of sounding really good together, she
teenager, was an Ibanez electric guitar.could not maintain her interest or concentration and
I discovered early on in the attempt to jam with alapsed into a power chord sequence from a Green
person more than 40 years my junior, that theDay tune.
Generation Gap was a very large gap. There I wasWith the young man and his Ibanez electric, the
playing nice open chords in the key of G or D andmoment came when, after watching him wince in pain
there were my jamming partners playing grungyat this attempt to play together, I asked if I could show
power chords on out of tune guitars and playing themhim some of my original songs on my Martin. He and
loudly! I would listen for a while and when they ran outhis friend readily agreed and I took a few minutes to
of momentum (only for the moment!) I would suggestretune the guitar to dadgad tuning. He said he had
they play something a bit more melodic and then Iheard of it but was not quite sure what it was. So, I
would try to follow along and provide some type ofproceeded to play the two instrumental tunes I had
rhythmic accompaniment. This would draw a type ofwritten and in the end, there was a few minutes of
blank stare, one that had an edge of teenage angstgenuine musical appreciation. We had crossed the gap
associated with it. But, because in each case thereand appreciated each other for the music. And even
was a parent present, they would attempt tolater that evening, this fine young man made several
cooperate and eventually, within a few minutes, thereferences to dadgad tuning and I'm sure it's something
momentum would once again die down and there washe will fool around with on his own.
an awkward silence.If the opportunity presents itself to make music, and to
Eventually I would put my own guitar down realizingmake music with someone across the chasm of
that this was not going to work out. And, little by littlemusical tastes, I highly recommend working at bridging
the respective teens would start playing stuff they hadthis gap. Musical appreciation can definitely bring the
practiced really well and felt comfortable with and Igenerations together.
would offer my compliments on fine guitar playing.